What exactly is Character Training?
I think it is to guide a child’s behavior and attitudes to make morally just choices.
Being homeschoolers leads to the often asked question of…
“What is the best character training resources?”
Now, admittedly, there are many, MANY awesome and amazing resources out there,
and people want to know what we use.
Yep, that’s it.
We already own it.
It doesn’t cost additional money.
It doesn’t take up much time.
It has all the answers…
In all honesty, we do not read our Bibles daily. We seem to go in phases.
A lot for a while, consistent for a little while longer, then a bit of a dry spell,
before journeying on again.
I do have to point out that the best character building is probably to be in the Word daily.
To let the Lord’s wisdom show us direction, truth, and compassion.
Communication would be a close 2nd.
Character Training is a team effort.
Which is why communication is important.
If we can’t practice patience, grace, compassion, honesty, forgiveness, and the like, with those whom are closest to us, how does it become a natural part of our personalities?
Typical conflicts in the home is the best lesson on character building.
Let’s face it, if there is more than one person in the home, then you have to think of others, right?
Discipling vs Disciplining
Discipling is teaching by action.
To walk the talk.
To live and breath what you believe.
Jesus set the ultimate example.
Disciplining is the correction of undesired behavior.
That is what most folks are referring to when discussing character traits.
how can I get my children to get along?
How do I have my child not ignore me?
What can I do about lying?
(you get the gist)
Here is our approach:
What ever undesirable behavior is being displayed,
have the child look up verses that define the opposite trait.
Anger; look up peace.
lying; look up honesty.
rudeness; look up respect.
hitting; look up gentleness.
(you get the gist)
Reading such scriptures is a kind reminder. If one needs a stronger reminder, then the child (or adult even *smile*) could write out the necessary verses. If it is truly an area of struggle, then it is time to memorize them as well. We all need words of wisdom stored in our hearts as to guide our behavior and attitudes to make morally just decisions.
How about you? What guides your integrity and builds character?
“Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds;
tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads.
Teach them to your children,
talking about them when you sit at home
and when you walk along the road,
when you lie down and when you get up.”
Deuteronomy 11:18 & 19