Christmas is an interesting time of year. One full of hope, yet smitten with chaos.
Christmas~
a purpose for joy…
Yet how many struggle through this season?
I have made a point to reach out to others this year.
An encouraging word, a simple hello, a listening ear.
A few of my friends are going through different marital struggles;
I want them to know they are valued, that I am praying for them,
basically that I care.
Other friends/family have suffered loss and this year brings up memories;
I want them to know their loved ones have not been forgotten,
that they themselves are a gift to me,
basically that I care.
Some struggle financially this year;
Although we don’t have much ourselves,
I still want to reach out,
share… care.
What words can we use to let our friends know they matter?
What can we say to a stranger who needs to know His hope?
These are the things I ponder this season…
and then a simple statement is thrown my way.
A casual comment that stopped me dead in my tracks.
An opinion about me.
Uh-huh, they can’t be serious?
Was it a flippant comment?
Or do they truly view me in this way?
I don’t take the words lightly…
for if they are true…
I am completely saddened.
Clearly I need to reflect on how to change not only this image of me,
but what caused this view in the first place.
Apparently, words do matter.
So sorry that you have been hurt by someone’s flippant words.
So thankful that I have a friend who prays for me when life is hard.
I will pray for you, as well.
Hugs!
Laurel
you are so sweet to assume the words were flippant, but I take it as a point to be more aware of what message I may be giving. Thanks for the prayers, the enemy definitely can sneak in and make us second guess ourselves, eh?
Saddened by anything that hurts you. I consider you a treasured blessing. You nurture beautiful children (and not just yours), you love and value Fred, and against heart rending odds you cared for my beloved Michele. I pray for you and your family daily….and I love you always. Julie Orr
Julie, Thanks for your precious words. You and Jim have such a special place in our hearts! Things, such as words, can make us more aware of how we can lift (or tear down) one another. Prayers are always appreciated. =)
Hey your 19 year old son nickolas is sexy;D
From CutePinkPenguin
Nick, did Justin hack your account? really that is too strange.
Love you (all)!